An update was just release for qdrouterd - that appears to have removed the ssl errors
Also turns out that my root partition was at 92% which caused qdrouter to stop writing to disk, even though there was plenty of space left ( found that default value appears to be max-disk: 90% )
After fixing that, i can’t really find any errors, but will see throughout the day if anything crashes again.
I’ve decided to be Mr. Hopeful that this is now fixed.